People are complex. Not one of us is perfect. We are unique. I am the one and only me. When we interact with others it is so easy to notice their negative bits. It is so easy to see the unsightly mole on the face, the skin condition, the bad haircut. It is so easy to see what someone gets wrong. Their mistakes and prejudices ir personal preferences so often become more important to us than their good points. How do I know that the irate or seemingly abusive client is actually a wise and good man if I do not stop to see it? Reevaluate those around you. Try to see the person that annoying individual actually is. Does that employer’ s bad language define him, or is it his love of family? Does that employees unwillingness to work late define him, or his dependability and client interactions? No. People have both good and bad. It is up to us to see the good.